Why are these men who are often considered trusted leaders in their community and those we consider society’s finest finding it so difficult to experience the deep, emotionally-connected, intimate, and passionate marriages they yearn for?

As mentors speaking to hundreds of such men and helping many of them overcome the challenges of a sexless marriage, we’ve identified many patterns among the men who are experiencing a sex-starved relationship that is low on intimacy and high on frustration and emotional pain.