The truth is, many men will be angered reading this. They’re not yet ready to face the daunting task of maturing into their most capable, confident selves. That’s okay; We get it; we were there, too, once!
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Breaking the Chains of Insecurity: How to Stop Being Upset When Your Wife Goes to Bed Without A Goodnight Kiss
I still get triggered seeing her on the sofa on her phone which is where she is pretty much most of the time after saying Goodnight to the kids. More often than not, she’s watching something or doing something. She’ll spend most of the time before bed in that position before going to bed. If I happen to go engage her in convo, she’ll listen and we talk but 90% of the time, that only happens if I initiate. She has rarely come to where I am and engaged me that way.
Why You Should Stop Telling Yourself That Sex Is A “Need”
When we first meet men, they often only approach sex in one way. Neediness.
We know it’s hard to hear, but this is the approach of immature, insecure men.
There’s a better way, and it involves a transformation and maturing process in the man’s life.
My Wife Just Said, “I Want A Divorce!” – Is My Marriage Over?
Many men are uncertain how to handle a wife’s declaration of divorce and fearfully wonder if her words are a determinative factor for getting a divorce. In this article, "Vick," one of our apprentice mentors of Mentoring Men, discusses what to do in these moments. If...
My Wife and I had a massive fight, and I can’t sleep. I’m broken and don’t know what to do.
Dena and I had a massive fight, and I can’t sleep. I’m broken. I don’t know what to do with her anger. She said she didn’t want to be married. I don’t think she means it.
She drank too much, and then the anger came. We need help, but I’m not sure where to go next. I know all the things we’ve been learning are helping me.
How A Typical Sexless Marriage Compares To a Deeply Connected Marriage
Why are these men who are often considered trusted leaders in their community and those we consider society’s finest finding it so difficult to experience the deep, emotionally-connected, intimate, and passionate marriages they yearn for?
As mentors speaking to hundreds of such men and helping many of them overcome the challenges of a sexless marriage, we’ve identified many patterns among the men who are experiencing a sex-starved relationship that is low on intimacy and high on frustration and emotional pain.
How I overcame a lifetime of anxiety and saved my marriage in the process
Hey brother, I appreciated your recent question and comments about feeling anxious in life and marriage. You mentioned being anxious and fearful all the time but unable to capture any of it. I relate! Especially when you described those anxious thoughts as "ping-pong...
How to truly let go of the woman who’s truly let go of you
This video and article were created in response to a question from a member of our Mentoring Men community. Bobby, Your question plucked a heart chord with me - one that needs to be plucked now and then because it reminds me of the profound transformation that has...
Fifty Must-Have Transformations For Living A Radically-Satisfying Masculine Life
The following transformations are fifty “must-have” transformations we find to routinely lead men to richly satisfying, vigorous, resilient, intimate, and deeply connected lives.
Why Information is Never Enough to Repair Your Broken Marriage
Hey brother, welcome. In this article, I will tell you one reason you might be struggling to fix or repair your broken marriage. Then, I will tell you how you can avoid this widespread mistake men make when experiencing marriage difficulty. So let me get right to the...
Every immature man has these in common in how he describes his partner
They all think “the problem” is that she’s avoidant.
They all think “the problem” is that she has walls up.
They all think “the problem” is that she stonewalls.
They all think “the problem” is that she doesn’t like intimacy, or that some form of prior abuse or trauma is to blame for her distance.
The Two Questions
Here’s an observation of mine… The power struggle phase in a marriage generally comes down to two questions/decision points.
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