I am here on this website because about three years ago I thought I was going to die from heartache. My marriage was in the beginning stages of its eventually demise and I found myself lost, confused, and searching for some sort of answer as to why it was all happening. I didn’t know what I didn’t know.
I reached out for help to other men who seemed to have either lived the same experiences, felt the same way at times, or knew a whole heck of a lot more than I did. We had very similar situations from hearing our wives say, “I love you but I’m not in love you” or plain and simple “I need space. I want you gone…today.” It left me feeling defeated, depressed, and destroyed.
That pain led me to some profound revelations. I learned insights into relationships and masculinity that transformed my life. After choosing my bottom, making the decision to get better and be better, I asked for help. That help came in the form of a powerful group of open-hearted men who are striving to live authentically, create something profoundly better, and desiring to share with other men the wisdom accumulated through their own heartache.
This work didn’t come easy. It took effort to face my “nice guy” tendencies and examine my less than desirable behaviors. I was afraid of losing my wife, afraid of losing my family, and afraid of losing the life I built. I fortunately faced these fears with an attitude of 100% responsibility for my actions and it opened my heart and my mind to hear, for the very first time, what needed to change.
Through this trying personal growth challenge I was able to realize exactly who I am, what I want, and where I am going. I feel more confident, clearer and more concise, and I love deeper than I have before. I feel less anxious and am comfortable emotionally, physically, and spiritually. The tools I learned have helped my relationships with my children, my friends, and many others.
I want those same things for you. I want you to find your swagger again. I want you to strip away the beliefs that are holding you back from getting what you want out of life. You are more powerful than you think right now. I can help with that if you are willing.